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Talking to your baby.... |
Talking to a baby is one of the most
important things parents can do for their child. It is critical in a babys
growth-and it cant start too soon. After all, at about 6 months, the fetus hears
sounds, the loudest (and the one remembered) being mothers voice. Studies show
infants actually recognize mothers voice and prefer it
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This ability to distinguish sounds continues
after birth and becomes more refined as baby starts to
understand her native language. Around the sixth month, youll wake up one morning to
the cooing and babbling sounds of your baby in her crib entertaining herself. Listen
closely and youll hear her having a cute "conversation" with a favorite
stuffed animal.
Conversation starters
At this age, most babies can hold a "conversation" with you, alternately
babbling and then listening. Try calling out to your baby from another room, however, and
youll be ignored. Baby needs to see you talking to her in order to connect your
voice with a conversation. Shell be most talkative when shes happy, and very
quiet when shes not.
Help build your babys language skills
Dont expect to hear any real words quite yet. Most of your babys vocalizations
will be one-syllable sounds like "moo," "maa," and "baa."
Although your baby is still developing language skills, shell be able to understand
you well before she can say the words. There are a few things you can do right now to help
baby develop language skills-as well as social skills.
Here are some of the best ways to talk to baby: |
Talk to your baby
a lot, particularly about whats going on at the moment. If youre putting on
babys socks, talk about that. If youre holding up a rattle, chat about the
rattle. Then shake the rattle and talk about the noise. Keep your conversation centered
around babys world and make sure youre talking directly to baby.
Use short
sentences and simple words. At first, baby can only process simple information.
Use nouns
consistently to identify things. For instance, ask, "Where is your book?" rather
than, "Where is it?" Refer to your baby by name. Shes still too young to
grasp the concept of pronouns like "you," "me," "yours," and
so on. Instead say, "Jennifer did a good job."
Talk about
objects the baby can see rather than things she has to recall. Seeing the object and
hearing the word at the same time will help baby make a stronger connection.
Refer often to
pictures. Faces and people will be especially intriguing at this time in babys life.
Picture books can be great conversation-starters!
Talk in a
happy-sounding voice. Thats pretty easy, actually, since most adults come with a
built-in sing-songy voice that automatically takes over whenever theyre face-to-face
with an infant.
Emphasize facial
expressions and gestures as you speak. You may feel silly, but this will help your baby
understand you better. Also make sure the facial expressions you use look happy. This way
baby will begin to identify talking as something pleasant.
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Talking to toddler
As your child grows, gradually adapt the way you converse by: |
Paying attention
when your toddler talks. This is easy because just listening to your little one talk is
fascinating. As a matter of fact, parents who havent spent much time talking with
their baby change once baby becomes a talkative toddler.
Expanding on what
your toddler says. For example, if she says, "see the dog", ask "What sound
does the dog make?" or "What color is the dog?" This expansion helps
increase babys appreciation for the seemingly limitless possibilities of language.
Echoing back what
your toddler says. (This is a good tip, no matter how old the child! It keeps everybody on
the same page.)
Asking questions.
Because youre little one is now talking, this is a wonderful opportunity to find out
whats going on in that little mind.
Interpreting
whats happening at a level a bit beyond where you assume your toddlers
operating. Youngsters can operate at a higher level than we assume, so a little stretch
will make for a healthy conversation. For example, if she says, "See the dog,"
respond by explaining why the dog is on a leash or why you shouldnt pet a dog that
is unfamiliar to you.
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